Wait... the buyer who the FFL wouldn't release to asked that FFL to ship the gun to another FFL, and they DID IT??? I think there are more than a few questions here... it wasn't his gun at that point, no business shipping it anywhere. Since he did that, and you have been willing to meet to redo the paperwork and he keeps changing/backing out... he's far beyond "reasonable".
Once that was done, I don't think you have any obligation to refund a dime unless and until YOU have the gun in your posession, and you refund less the costs if it has to be re-DROSed and a reasonable amount for your time. That or agree to set ONE meet for him to retry the DROS, at his own risk.
I'm presuming you do know where the gun is now... and have made contact in case you need to recover it?
Once that was done, I don't think you have any obligation to refund a dime unless and until YOU have the gun in your posession, and you refund less the costs if it has to be re-DROSed and a reasonable amount for your time. That or agree to set ONE meet for him to retry the DROS, at his own risk.
I'm presuming you do know where the gun is now... and have made contact in case you need to recover it?


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