Best for a child is usually making them responsible for their actions.
My son knew quite well if he was to get involved in any criminal matter I would be the one driving him to the station to talk with the police. I always told him he would be responsible for his actions and face the consequences regardless. I also told him I would still love him and support him.
I never had to carry out my promise. He made good choices and was never involved in any criminal matters, and is now a successful responsible adult.
I have seen more kids get deeper into trouble due to parents who would either minimize the child's involvement in a crime or try to shield them from the consequences of their acts.. Children need to learn that there are true consequences to their activities. Having a parent who will not seek the actual truth and let consequences happen. Only embolden a child to repeat their criminal behavior.
LEO's don't need to "protect their jobs" as you put it. They seek the truth. If you don't believe LEO's should seek the truth, well I don't know what you want them to do.
Investigating crimes and determining the truth is the more important than the "feelings" of the suspect or his family. Because it's the suspect who actually caused the incident to occur in the first place.
If you don't want the police investigating you, don't commit crimes.
My son knew quite well if he was to get involved in any criminal matter I would be the one driving him to the station to talk with the police. I always told him he would be responsible for his actions and face the consequences regardless. I also told him I would still love him and support him.
I never had to carry out my promise. He made good choices and was never involved in any criminal matters, and is now a successful responsible adult.
I have seen more kids get deeper into trouble due to parents who would either minimize the child's involvement in a crime or try to shield them from the consequences of their acts.. Children need to learn that there are true consequences to their activities. Having a parent who will not seek the actual truth and let consequences happen. Only embolden a child to repeat their criminal behavior.
LEO's don't need to "protect their jobs" as you put it. They seek the truth. If you don't believe LEO's should seek the truth, well I don't know what you want them to do.
Investigating crimes and determining the truth is the more important than the "feelings" of the suspect or his family. Because it's the suspect who actually caused the incident to occur in the first place.
If you don't want the police investigating you, don't commit crimes.


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