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  • #16
    bsg
    I need a LIFE!!
    • Jan 2009
    • 25954

    good luck.

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    • #17
      L84CABO
      Calguns Addict
      • Mar 2009
      • 8762

      Office should be fine unless it's in the ghetto or something. There is no law that requires you notify DOJ of a change of address...at least that I'm aware but I wouldn't put anything past the legisexuals in Sacramento at this point.

      As for the in-law situation, I wish you the best of luck. That doesn't sound like anything I could do but I respect what you're trying to do here. If I were doing this, however, I would probably have a very long and thorough conversation with the wife about what to expect, what your concerns are and boundaries. Like maybe the two of you agree that no matter the situation, you will never fight in front of them.
      "Kestryll I wanna lick your doughnut."

      Fighter Pilot

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      • #18
        BIGD15
        Member
        • Jun 2015
        • 133

        Thanks for your feedbacks.

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        • #19
          therealnickb
          King- Lifetime
          CGN Contributor - Lifetime
          • Oct 2011
          • 8955

          I'd move into my office before ever considering living with in-laws.

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          • #20
            kimbrel425@yahoo.com
            Member
            • Dec 2011
            • 297

            Haha. Moving in with the in laws is fun....said no one ever. We moved in with them to save for our wedding. I'm not a fan of even visiting after that. Good luck

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            • #21
              sloppy joe
              Senior Member
              • Aug 2006
              • 776

              Good luck.

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              • #22
                emulex81
                Junior Member
                • Dec 2015
                • 74

                They won't even allow them locked? Offer to give them the only key and make another one. LOL this is why we have the laws we do here in CA

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                • #23
                  71MUSTY
                  Calguns Addict
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 7029

                  Originally posted by suicidesam
                  Don't do it!! Biggest mistake of my life...now divorced thanks to them.
                  I can understand the need to save money while you build the business. We lived in a 25 ft used (trashed) travel trailer in a field for a year and a half while I build mine.


                  But I would never move in with the in-laws, ever, never. All it took was the first wife getting a job with her parents to poison our marriage. You will give up your man card the moment you become beholding to them and no woman will respect a man with no man card. I wouldn't even barrow a dime from my on-laws. Not even from the second wife's cool ones.

                  DON't do it. Find another way.You will be glad you did.

                  In fact if either of my daughters married someone I didn't want around the first thing I would do is offer them to move in with us. Guarantee that relationship wouldn't make it a year.
                  Last edited by 71MUSTY; 07-30-2016, 8:53 AM.
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                  • #24
                    tbc
                    Calguns Addict
                    • Jun 2011
                    • 5955

                    Rent a mobil home (manufacture home) instead.


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                    • #25
                      glock7
                      Veteran Member
                      • Aug 2010
                      • 3390

                      Red flag right there. Good luck man.
                      #blackriflesmatter
                      <4 years till retirement, can't wait to leave this state
                      California, where all of the good stuff is banned, registered, regulated or prohibited, yay.....

                      Law abiding firearm owners have no chance in this state.

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                      • #26
                        CouchOperator
                        Veteran Member
                        • May 2016
                        • 4353

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                        • #27
                          Kyle1886
                          Veteran Member
                          • Dec 2009
                          • 4219

                          If you don't own the building that your business is in, READ and UNDERSTAND your lease. In one of the leases that I had, stated "NO Firearms". You could be in violation of the lease and forced out but still be liable for your lease obligation for the duration of the lease term.


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                          • #28
                            Barang
                            CGN Contributor
                            • Aug 2013
                            • 13301

                            Originally posted by therealnickb
                            I'd move into my office before ever considering living with in-laws.
                            Originally posted by 71MUSTY
                            I can understand the need to save money while you build the business. We lived in a 25 ft used (trashed) travel trailer in a field for a year and a half while I build mine.

                            .....
                            Originally posted by tbc
                            Rent a mobil home (manufacture home) instead.


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                            .... might want toy disable the firearms by removing barrels, recoil & guide springs/BCG and charging handle if storing in the business site.

                            Wishing you success with your business. Oh! and hope it works out with your in-laws if you stay with them.
                            Last edited by Barang; 07-30-2016, 2:25 PM.

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                            • #29
                              whipsmart
                              Member
                              • May 2011
                              • 108

                              You need to psychologically prepare yourself for the experience. Like what will you do when things at work and at home are tense, which will happen. Plan ahead for outlets otherwise it's going to be a long 2 years.

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                              • #30
                                Jak Nobody
                                Junior Member
                                • Jun 2016
                                • 86

                                I would say work out a compromise if this is your only option. For instance, when my wife and I had to move in with her parents (for mutual financial reasons), I had a problem with my father-in-law smoking in the house. It wasn't that he smoked, because I do also, but because the kids would be in the house and have to deal with it. I told him that if we were to move in, that would have to stop. He said no. We eventually worked it out where he would smoke in his room only with the doors and vents closed and the windows open, even in winter. What I'm getting at is, perhaps you can work out having your firearms in your room only and locked up. Be sure to emphasize that it is a compromise on both sides that respects both points of view.
                                There is no teacher but the enemy. No one but the enemy will tell you what the enemy is going to do. No one but the enemy will ever teach you how to destroy and conquer. Only the enemy shows you where you are weak. Only the enemy tells you where he is strong. And the rules of the game are what you can do to him and what you can stop him from doing to you. -Mazer Rackham, "Ender's Game"

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