My dear friend, they made a request on behalf of an elderly and sick woman who has decided not to quarantine herself, and AFAIK she will be at this gathering. I doubt that anyone has asked her to take a test - that is one of the first questions I'd be asking if there's an opportunity.
I've already made the decision to show up and take their little test because:
1) 99% of the other guests aren't idiots, my wife's family are mostly normal and I get along with them even though most of them are slightly lefty/liberalish. I'm not demaning everyone share my opinion on anything for christ sakes.
2) I have a wife & son that want to be there with their relatives (especially the young ones), and I want to be with my wife & son, not sitting at home by myself. I can back out any time I want, but all my family is on the opposite coast of the USA. Lesser of two evils in a way.
3) Ultimately I can choose who I hang out with that day. Once I am on site I'll have a better idea who deserves my company. I'm ok just hanging out with my boy all day. I'm not going to be petulant or a 'narcissistic toddler'. I'm an adult and I know how to greet people cordially and take the high road and excuse myself. If I'm prodded about anything I'll give an honest answer and be happy to discuss any topic, but I'm not going to sugar-coat a single word coming out of my mouth. Honestly I don't give a F at this point what anyone thinks of me right now.
4) This goes without saying - food & drink on someone else's dime. Wife made a pie to bring over, 'nuff said. Expecting the food to be passible at best, hopefully, if it's not I'll just fill up on pie and liquor

What I don't want to happen is having to excuse myself from the whole damn house because everyone is a completely intolerable tw@t (almost zero chance of that happening thankfully)...but I'm prepared to stick to my guns. (tw@t is censored? really?)
I'll probably come back and give an after action report because some of you are probably hoping for some fireworks


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