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  • caliberetta
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2014
    • 2751

    Reflexes tested

    I would like to share a very tense and hair raising story. Just kidding, no, IT's NOT.

    It's not even exciting. Just a story to share something that happened a couple nights ago.

    I got startled by someone who was not supposed to be in my home, and this resulted in having to draw my weapon for the first time.

    Brief background.... I participated my first shooting match last December. I thought I was good, until I realized by the end of the match, I came in 27th out of 35 participants. I realized that shooting under pressure is really something else, compared to comfortably practicing at the range, where I was Jerry Miculek. I fumbled my draws, got a bad grip, shaky hands and missed targets I could otherwise easily hit while standing relaxed on a firing lane. Shooting on the move? I quickly realized I'd be lucky to hit a 12-inch chest shot at 7 yards while walking.

    Since January, I have been practicing at least 3 times a week, and so far put in over 4,000 rds of draw-firing, double taps, failure drills, shooting on the move and all kinds of CCW and IDPA drills. I was determined to improve my skills. I don't like to lose. I don't like fumbling. I want to be able to prove to myself that I trust my shooting/weapon handling reflexes in a pressure situation. That has been my goal and mindset recently. I think my skills have improved a lot over the last 3 months or so, and steadily moved up the ranks.

    Well 2 nights ago, I got my self defense reflexes put to a small, but real situation. I am staying at a large house by myself. The only other person that is supposed to be there is a housekeeper who "keeps the house" once in a while, takes care of my laundry, cleans up and stuff.

    I came home from work at about 8pm. Nobody is supposed to be there. The housekeeper is gone, she is out before sundown. This is a typical day.

    I unloaded stuff from my car and walked to my room, locked-up for the night. After about 5-10min, I realized I forgot something in the car. I still had my CCW on me. I got up and went out of the room towards the front door. I was walking pretty fast.

    As I'm walking through the dark/dimly lit living room, I sense a movement on my left side, and from my peripheral vision I see a shadow of a person about 5-6 yards distance, walking in the same direction as me.

    The hair on the back of my neck stood up. My first thought... burglar... or is it that disgruntled psycho I fired last year? How'd he get into the house?? What the ...??? I stop in my tracks, take a small step back.

    I initially reacted in a way that I had not ever practiced, nor expected. For some bizarre reason, I turned to my left and stomped my left foot forward really hard on the wooden floor, as if to attempt to make a sound or action that would startle/scare that person too. Maybe something to distract that person from my right hand, which was reaching for my pistol, IWB at 3:00.

    Did I just stomp on the ground? Maybe it's from TaeKwonDo class 30 years ago? I don't know why I responded like an stomping rhinoceros, but anyway, that's what I did.

    At the same time, my right hand reached under my Shirt to draw my 9mm pistol, which came out smoothly, while I stepped sideways to my right, towards a wall for cover, about 3-4 yards away. Some people would call that "getting off the X," which was part of the my practice routine. I draw while stepping off to the left or right. It came out as pure reflex, didn't think about it. But this was more like "getting off the STOMP" .... Please don't laugh.

    Before I even reached the wall for cover, I realized that silhouette I saw is a young girl who was by now standing frozen with her hands and cell phone tight on her chest, in full attention and look of utter shock in her eyes.

    I didn't even have time to get both my hands on my 1911, just one hand, with my thumb on the Safety ready to disengage it... by this time I realized this person is not a threat... I recognize it's the housekeeper's young daughter (about 16 or 17 years old), who was probably about to pee where she was standing.

    The feeling of getting ready to raise my weapon, to realizing I have probably traumatized this young lady was pretty immediate. I had continued to move to the side, not for cover... but to literally hide the gun from her sight and put it away.

    She was first to speak... "sss...ss..sorrrryyyyyyyy ......."


    I raised my left hand, "..no, no... no, no... it's ok... are you ok?"

    I apologized to her too and told her I got also startled, didn't expect anyone to be in the house. She explained that her Mom had left her behind to run a quick errand, and she sat in the room next to mine so that she could access my WiFi - I gave her Mom the password and permission to have access to it.

    All went back to normal after that. The housekeeper later apologized for not letting me know, I told her its no problem.

    I'm pretty sure if one was watching from the outside, a startled 200lb man stomping on the ground with a gun in his hand vs. a 90lb teen girl would be pretty funny, which in hindsight, it is.

    It was a decent test to see where my reflexes were, and I'm pretty sure the recent practiced routines helped in ensuring I'm not fumbling around in that situation. It was good to know and feel everything seemed automatic. Got a solid grip on my pistol. I never had any feeling to fire, but I was pretty close to raising my weapon.

    I sure hope that's the only time I would ever have to do that ever again though.

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    Last edited by caliberetta; 04-04-2017, 11:26 PM.
  • #2
    L84CABO
    Calguns Addict
    • Mar 2009
    • 8762

    I dub thee...Stompy McStomperson. You're welcome.

    Seriously though, glad nobody was hurt and it was nothing. Good test to see what you would do. Consider now if the stomping was beneficial or gave up a tactical advantage. I'm certainly not going to judge it because I wasn't there. But I will make up funny nicknames for you cause that's how I roll.

    p.s.

    You should ask Kes to update your login with your new nickname.
    "Kestryll I wanna lick your doughnut."

    Fighter Pilot

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    • #3
      MrOrange
      Senior Member
      • Aug 2006
      • 2262

      See, this is why you don't give out your wi-fi password.

      But seriously folks, in another in the long list of things that make people call me paranoid, whenever I come home and no one's supposed to be there, I check the whole place out. Not real time consuming at my studio, but when I've lived in a house or house-sat, I looked into all the rooms, checked to see if any doors or windows looked B&E'd, etc. Maybe just turning on the lights in the living room would've prevented your surprise.

      Gotta say though, good show not drawing your weapon and standing down.


      I think the stomp is some kind of ingrained primitive response to danger or a sudden potential threat. Besides the animals who exhibit this behavior, look at how some cultures stomp their feet during rituals or dances to scare off evil. My old-school Chinese paternal grandfather used to stamp a foot on the ground whenever he sneezed. When my bewildered Mom asked him why, he said when you sneezed, it meant that somebody who was dead was talking bad about you.


      Can I get a witness?



      Can't help it, it's what came to mind on the stomp mention.
      I meant, it is my opinion that...






      I do believe that where there is a choice only between cowardice and violence
      I would advise violence. - M. Gandhi
      You're my kind of stupid. - M. Reynolds

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      • #4
        titan2
        Senior Member
        • Aug 2013
        • 908

        Originally posted by L84CABO
        I dub thee...Stompy McStomperson. You're welcome.

        Seriously though, glad nobody was hurt and it was nothing. Good test to see what you would do. Consider now if the stomping was beneficial or gave up a tactical advantage. I'm certainly not going to judge it because I wasn't there. But I will make up funny nicknames for you cause that's how I roll.

        p.s.

        You should ask Kes to update your login with your new nickname.

        I think 'THUMPER' is better.....

        UT - Done
        AZ - Done
        NV - Done
        CA - Done

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        • #5
          robert101
          Senior Member
          • Sep 2009
          • 1997

          Now you know practice and the real deal are two different things. People get scared and this is a natural response. We can practice (a lot) but how do we react in a real situation is many times unknown. I know practice means to likely translate into reality, but until some experience is gained in stressful reality, actions are suspect.

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          • #6
            baggss
            CGN/CGSSA Contributor - Lifetime
            • Mar 2013
            • 3439

            The real question is:

            "Why was there a 16 year old girl alone with you in your house at that time of night?".


            NRA Lifetime Member : CalGuns Lifetime Member : GOA Lifetime Member

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            • #7
              heominhon
              Member
              • Jul 2014
              • 429

              Since you shoot 4000 rnds a month and have a big house all by yourself, the question now is will you adopt me or can i live with you

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              • #8
                fatogato
                Member
                • Apr 2016
                • 103

                Originally posted by baggss
                The real question is:

                "Why was there a 16 year old girl alone with you in your house at that time of night?".

                Chris Hansen: Why don't you take a seat right over there OP.

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                • #9
                  Subotai
                  I need a LIFE!!
                  • Jun 2010
                  • 11289

                  Originally posted by fatogato
                  Chris Hansen: Why don't you take a seat right over there OP.
                  Pulled out his "gun".
                  RKBA Clock: soap box, ballot box, jury box, cartridge box (Say When!)
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                  • #10
                    hunterb
                    CGN/CGSSA Contributor
                    CGN Contributor
                    • Jun 2011
                    • 3796

                    TACTICAL FOOT STOMP!

                    Sounds like training has already started to pay off OP
                    Originally posted by johnthomas
                    ...The hardest part getting rid of crap is getting started.

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                    • #11
                      Tadich
                      Junior Member
                      • Mar 2013
                      • 64

                      Originally posted by fatogato
                      Chris Hansen: Why don't you take a seat right over there OP.
                      Brilliant.
                      If two people agree on everything, one of them isn't necessary.

                      And Fauci didn't kill himself.

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                      • #12
                        Paladin
                        I need a LIFE!!
                        • Dec 2005
                        • 12411

                        Originally posted by caliberetta
                        Well 2 nights ago, I got my self defense reflexes put to a small, but real situation. I am staying at a large house by myself. The only other person that is supposed to be there is a housekeeper who "keeps the house" once in a while, takes care of my laundry, cleans up and stuff.

                        I came home from work at about 8pm. Nobody is supposed to be there. The housekeeper is gone, she is out before sundown. This is a typical day.

                        I unloaded stuff from my car and walked to my room, locked-up for the night. After about 5-10min, I realized I forgot something in the car. I still had my CCW on me. I got up and went out of the room towards the front door. I was walking pretty fast.
                        So you entered your home, unloaded your stuff, "locked-up" for the night, and yet she did not hear you? Or did she hear you but decide to stay hidden? Did she have any lights on in the room she was in? If so, how'd you miss that when locking up for the night? This all doesn't add up. I'm for calling Chris Hanson....

                        Originally posted by caliberetta
                        As I'm walking through the dark/dimly lit living room, I sense a movement on my left side, and from my peripheral vision I see a shadow of a person about 5-6 yards distance, walking in the same direction as me.

                        The hair on the back of my neck stood up. My first thought... burglar... or is it that disgruntled psycho I fired last year? How'd he get into the house?? What the ...??? I stop in my tracks, take a small step back.
                        There's no excuse for not having a burglar alarm nowadays, they're so cheap.

                        Originally posted by caliberetta
                        Before I even reached the wall for cover, I realized that silhouette I saw is a young girl who was by now standing frozen with her hands and cell phone tight on her chest, in full attention and look of utter shock in her eyes.

                        I didn't even have time to get both my hands on my 1911, just one hand, with my thumb on the Safety ready to disengage it... by this time I realized this person is not a threat... I recognize it's the housekeeper's young daughter (about 16 or 17 years old), who was probably about to pee where she was standing.

                        The feeling of getting ready to raise my weapon, to realizing I have probably traumatized this young lady was pretty immediate. I had continued to move to the side, not for cover... but to literally hide the gun from her sight and put it away.

                        She was first to speak... "sss...ss..sorrrryyyyyyyy ......."


                        I raised my left hand, "..no, no... no, no... it's ok... are you ok?"

                        I apologized to her too and told her I got also startled, didn't expect anyone to be in the house. She explained that her Mom had left her behind to run a quick errand, and she sat in the room next to mine so that she could access my WiFi - I gave her Mom the password and permission to have access to it.

                        All went back to normal after that. The housekeeper later apologized for not letting me know, I told her its no problem.
                        The WiFi in your house only goes to the next room? No? Well then tell her mother that if she ever does that again she's to tell her daughter to stay in the living room with the lights on and to let you know when you arrive that she's there.

                        But honestly, I really think this is a case for Chris Hanson....
                        240+ examples of CCWs Saving Lives.

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                        • #13
                          caliberetta
                          Veteran Member
                          • Jan 2014
                          • 2751

                          Tactical Foot Stump, that is funny

                          You guys can be very suspicious of everything! Rightfully so, I guess.

                          Answers to some questions:

                          The real question is: "Why was there a 16 year old girl alone with you in your house at that time of night?".

                          --- I don't know, and that is why I draw my weapon on her... I meant the 1911

                          So you entered your home, unloaded your stuff, "locked-up" for the night, and yet she did not hear you? Or did she hear you but decide to stay hidden?

                          --- She probably heard me coming in, but didn't want to me to know she is there. She probably didn't have time to get up and go to another area of the house when I came in, so she most likely just kept still. They know I just come in the house and go straight to my room and usually just stay there.

                          Did she have any lights on in the room she was in?

                          --- It wasn't a bedroom she was, it was a family room. She was sitting in the couch in the dark, most likely surfing the net, chatting/texting while she waited for her mother .. I know she was on the couch because the next morning, I saw the indent on the couch and back pillows where she was most likely sitting.

                          If so, how'd you miss that when locking up for the night? This all doesn't add up. I'm for calling Chris Hanson....

                          --- When I came into the house, I went straight to my room, and locked up my room. Everything seemed normal as any day. I think that when I went out of my room, she attempted to get up and leave without being discovered, but I exited my room fast and was walking fast... that's why I caught her.

                          Chris Hanson is welcome to come to come over ... he may be waiting a long time (as in, forever) for a juicy story though.

                          There's no excuse for not having a burglar alarm nowadays, they're so cheap.

                          --- I don't have an alarm in that house, probably don't need one, just good locks. It's a heavily secured community and with plenty of security patrols. Both my neighbors on the left and right side have their own 24 hour Security guards too. No burglary there in 24 years. Whatever theft reported is from insider. This is why I thought... how did the psycho get through all that security and into the house? I do have CCTV though.

                          The WiFi in your house only goes to the next room? No?

                          --- It's a large house (about 6k sqft) and the only WiFi I have turned on is in my room. It's got thick walls and solid wood doors, so the WiFi doesn't get very far. I guess the Family Room couch was comfortable and had a decent signal, that's why she was there.

                          Well then tell her mother that if she ever does that again she's to tell her daughter to stay in the living room with the lights on and to let you know when you arrive that she's there.

                          --- Yup I told them it's ok, just let me know! Mom was very apologetic.

                          Back to regular programming
                          .
                          Last edited by caliberetta; 04-06-2017, 2:23 AM.

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                          • #14
                            Considerizer
                            CGN/CGSSA Contributor - Lifetime
                            CGN Contributor - Lifetime
                            • Jun 2016
                            • 153

                            OP, seems to be a little too much eagerness to deploy the weapon. Sorry to rain on the parade.

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                            • #15
                              Socratic
                              Banned
                              • Feb 2017
                              • 173

                              Get a dog. I'd rather have a loyal dog than burglar and fire alarms.

                              Our dog is spoiled. He thinks he adopted us. He thinks he runs our operation. He's worth spoiling. He will bark when strangers approach. He will turn from playful to aggressive were anyone to harm my kids. He's very protective of his domain.

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