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Originally posted by GoodEyeSniperOriginally posted by ChopperXOriginally posted by Jeff L -
I don't know OP, but you're jumping to a pretty big conclusion here. Perhaps father-in-law was refusing to hand over said firearm after OP politely asked for it. Perhaps father-in-law said, "No way in hell are you getting this firearm. Get the eff off my porch."Originally posted by GoCommando
So you see, he might not have gone over there intending to be a dick, but sounds like things escalated. He easily could have punched the guy out. Instead, he used the threat of legal recourse. Perhaps it was the father-in-law that was being a dick?Comment
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"Anti-gun laws aren't about crime. They ensure much of the proletariat will have no more than pitchforks when they rise up in armed revolt, make peasants feel the overlords are protecting them, and reduce behavior frowned upon by the intolerant masses."
Drew EckhardtComment
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My wife grew up in europe being told that guns create violence so I had a bit of a challenge to have her just HOLD a gun , but once she passed that hurdle I took her to the range and had her shoot a .22 pistol , she liked it and wanted to try a 9 so I loaded a single round in a sig p226 and when she fired it she felt safe because it would only go bang once , when she gained confidence I started loading two and so on , slow and always at HER pace .
Now she is an avid shooter and has a nice little collection of her own and she is the one always wanting to go to the range lolJustice without force is powerless ; force without justice is TyrannicalComment
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IMO...
Be patient with her.
She's your fiance; so you owe it to her to have a heart-to-heart discussion to discuss her fears/concerns. Then, honestly try to address those concerns with her.
Do that by teaching/explaining/showing her the safety rules of shooting, the proper mechanical operation of the firearm, how firearms are cleaned and maintained, how to use safety equipment, going shooting with other couples, going to training classes together or visiting a women's shooting group, and there are lots of online resources. This will help show her the safe structure of your gun use/ownership.
The more familiar she becomes with firearms and the shooting sports world, the safer and more comfortable she will feel.NRA PATRON LIFE MEMBERComment
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I'm fairly new (6 months). into the world of shooting. I grew up shooting a 22 with my dad, and skeet shooting with my ex but I haven't been interested for years, until last year when a group of girlfriends were sitting & talking about getting their CCW.
One friend took a basic firearm class, bought 2 firearms (shield & G26). And moved on with life, never heard from her about again, and she's never available for practice now that I'm into it.
I was contacted by another friend trying to fill spaces in her CCW class. I didn't really understand, and missed the class. Within a month I had a scary situation at my home, in which a "salesman" tried to enter my house. I was watching his approach, and his waiting on my front door via my security cams & front window, covered with a sun blocker screen so he couldn't see me, didn't know I was there & couldn't see me. He reached toward the door. And then stood back waiting, playing with his clipboard. And when I caught him, he gave me some bogus name & excuse, then left & disappeared down the street. There was no flyer on my door nob, so I suspect he as trying to enter. It shocked & scared me, so I called my CCW friend right away and asked her to schedule a class right away, and she did.
I've totally got the bug now. It's so much fun! And I LOVE the community, everyone is super nice & helpful. I'll admit, I have more than one gun, but so far keeping pace with the q 30 day rule. I go to the range 1-2x/month. I've been on the indoor rifle range sometimes, and dang it's loud in there. I use the amplified ear protection and have been told I can dial it down so the bang isn't so loud. The other thing, I really prefer off hours thus less wait, less people, less noise.
I'm taking as many classes as I can afford. Did a defensive handgun class last month in NV, returning this Sat for level 2. Taking another class mid-month, and found another local instructor to take more advanced classes with, like low light, and shooting from barricades. Being encouraged to do SDPS...want to do it all!
As to the OP's question, advice.
I really think there is benefit for a woman to discover the joy of shooting on her own, or with other ladies vs tagging along, or being encouraged/pushed by SO. Do you have a mutual female friend who can encourage her? Or...if you are near Sacramento, she is welcome to go with me or join my ladies group.
If you go to the range together, try off hours for a quieter, possibly less threatening environment.
Good luck!Last edited by californiagal; 06-02-2016, 11:34 PM.Comment
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To each their own some people just are not in to guns. Or in to cars
Some people collect old toys or clothing.
I personally don't fish. Everyone else in my family does.
My wife wants to shoot but, with 2 kids she won't pay for a baby sitter to go shooting with me. When I offer to watch the kids she has other things she would rather do.Comment
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My wife is a realtor. Never seemed much into guns but certainly not anti in the slightest. After the 3rd news story of yet another realtor murdered/raped at a house showing she was all about getting CPL (concealed pistol license) and becoming a more proficient shooter.
Sometimes folks come around to a thing on their own accord. Sometimes patience is the best strategy.Comment
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my dad hunted.
I had a rifle at age 8.
not into killing things but it was a bond with dad and I.
fast forward some years and I become a complete pacifist to the point that I decided I wouldn't even protect myself.
again, fast forward: birth of my daughter and I decided that I would kill anyone out to harm her and I would also kill anyone trying to harm me as I wanted to be the one to raise her and see her grown up. yes, the momma bear in me woke up!"The theory that a woman found dead in an alley, raped and strangled with her own pantyhose, is somehow morally superior to a woman explaining to police how her attacker got that fatal bullet wound."-- as seen on a t-shirt
Originally posted by The ShootistComment
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If you can find out if any of her friends are into shooting, it might help. Besides the sounds at a range, it is sometimes intimidating to be surrounded by a bunch of guys with guns.
There are a few ranges that hold women only classes and it is actually a lot of fun to go with a friend. It's less intimidating and it's a great community of women who want to be safe and protected.Comment
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"Anti-gun laws aren't about crime. They ensure much of the proletariat will have no more than pitchforks when they rise up in armed revolt, make peasants feel the overlords are protecting them, and reduce behavior frowned upon by the intolerant masses."
Drew EckhardtComment
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Im not affiliated with this group,but have heard wonderful reports from a couple ladies who were terrified of shooting and firearms before taking this 1day class.
I would suggest you make her a gift of this class along with a romantic evening after it concludes!
No one does a better job of relating to and teaching firearm safety and marksmanship than the NRA.
Last edited by ja308; 06-09-2016, 12:17 AM.Comment
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"The theory that a woman found dead in an alley, raped and strangled with her own pantyhose, is somehow morally superior to a woman explaining to police how her attacker got that fatal bullet wound."-- as seen on a t-shirt
Originally posted by The ShootistComment
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I would be happy to work with her. I am a NRA firearms instructor. I am also a Well Armed Woman instructor. We are trained to train women. It is an awesome program. If I can be of any help to her or anyone, please contact me at (951)741-5326 or wellarmedglockgirl@gmail.comComment
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