As an example, the post which followed mine...
Then you posted...
So... What is the individual looking to decide supposed to hear? That abortion is, sometimes, 'acceptable,' even among Christians; but, that considering it 'acceptable' is 'un-Christian?' Such creates dissonance and confusion, on many levels.
It's not a neat and tidy argument/discussion and never will be. Not everyone who is pro-Choice thinks of it as a form of birth control. In fact, the term "pro-Choice" is, at least in the abstract, befitting of the position you describe yourself as being in. You favor the choice being 'Life,' but allow for other choices in given circumstances. How does that jibe with your earlier declarations?
There's a reason why pro-Life was chosen as the nomenclature. However, pro-Choice has been misleadingly applied as simply 'pro-abortion,' regardless of context. In other words, just those two category titles demonstrate why it's not a neat and tidy discourse. One can be simultaneously pro-Choice and pro-Life without being 'un-Christian;' but, there are those who simply won't accept that and the language relied upon reinforces the 'unacceptable' or 'un-Christian' point of view rather than recognizing and/or acknowledging that nuance is often involved.
Do I feel abortion is an 'acceptable' form of birth control? Not in the sense most reference 'birth control.' In fact, stories of women who initially wanted to utilize it as such, then later changed their mind abound. That facet alone indicates its inappropriateness as a 'birth control measure' given the definitiveness of the choice.
Yet, to move that 'inappropriateness' to a 'forbidden' or 'sinful' status is also inappropriate for the very reasons discussed. Being 'pro-abortion' isn't the same as being 'un-Christian,' nor is it simply about being a murderer who defies God's will. It's about exactly what the label implies, which is exactly what God allowed... the ability to choose. Without that ability to choose, we mitigate or eliminate God's ability to forgive based on the choices we make. In a sense, it obviates righteousness by faith and demands righteousness by works.
That is why we need be careful when engaging in these arguments/discussions. We come to it with 'loaded language' and 'preconceived notions' which we, sometimes, don't even agree with ourselves. Well, at least not fully or in the manner in which we come across. Choice is not a frivolous option anymore than Life is an absolute position for most given that 'allowances' are often acknowledged/made.
That means the question which titles this thread is a bit misleading as "When does Life begin?" isn't what we are arguing over. Instead, the criteria utilized to determine 'acceptability' of the act is what causes the discord. Thus, the 'removal' of the support system many use to justify or rationalize their beliefs and contentions is the place to start, for both sides, when it comes to the discourse. Just like seeking 'alternatives' to those support systems via various labels as they too reek of justification/rationalization. What results is a removal of many of the 'hurdles' which impede actual discourse/persuasion.
Put another way, adamantly extolling what you believe is not necessarily the best form of persuasion. Patiently explaining why you believe the way you do and demonstrating how those beliefs are not necessarily antithetical to the other person's Life or the choices they are confronted with is and happens to be what 'testimony' is all about. Bridging the gap that remains is the Holy Spirit's job.
Then you posted...
So... What is the individual looking to decide supposed to hear? That abortion is, sometimes, 'acceptable,' even among Christians; but, that considering it 'acceptable' is 'un-Christian?' Such creates dissonance and confusion, on many levels.
It's not a neat and tidy argument/discussion and never will be. Not everyone who is pro-Choice thinks of it as a form of birth control. In fact, the term "pro-Choice" is, at least in the abstract, befitting of the position you describe yourself as being in. You favor the choice being 'Life,' but allow for other choices in given circumstances. How does that jibe with your earlier declarations?
There's a reason why pro-Life was chosen as the nomenclature. However, pro-Choice has been misleadingly applied as simply 'pro-abortion,' regardless of context. In other words, just those two category titles demonstrate why it's not a neat and tidy discourse. One can be simultaneously pro-Choice and pro-Life without being 'un-Christian;' but, there are those who simply won't accept that and the language relied upon reinforces the 'unacceptable' or 'un-Christian' point of view rather than recognizing and/or acknowledging that nuance is often involved.
Do I feel abortion is an 'acceptable' form of birth control? Not in the sense most reference 'birth control.' In fact, stories of women who initially wanted to utilize it as such, then later changed their mind abound. That facet alone indicates its inappropriateness as a 'birth control measure' given the definitiveness of the choice.
Yet, to move that 'inappropriateness' to a 'forbidden' or 'sinful' status is also inappropriate for the very reasons discussed. Being 'pro-abortion' isn't the same as being 'un-Christian,' nor is it simply about being a murderer who defies God's will. It's about exactly what the label implies, which is exactly what God allowed... the ability to choose. Without that ability to choose, we mitigate or eliminate God's ability to forgive based on the choices we make. In a sense, it obviates righteousness by faith and demands righteousness by works.
That is why we need be careful when engaging in these arguments/discussions. We come to it with 'loaded language' and 'preconceived notions' which we, sometimes, don't even agree with ourselves. Well, at least not fully or in the manner in which we come across. Choice is not a frivolous option anymore than Life is an absolute position for most given that 'allowances' are often acknowledged/made.
That means the question which titles this thread is a bit misleading as "When does Life begin?" isn't what we are arguing over. Instead, the criteria utilized to determine 'acceptability' of the act is what causes the discord. Thus, the 'removal' of the support system many use to justify or rationalize their beliefs and contentions is the place to start, for both sides, when it comes to the discourse. Just like seeking 'alternatives' to those support systems via various labels as they too reek of justification/rationalization. What results is a removal of many of the 'hurdles' which impede actual discourse/persuasion.
Put another way, adamantly extolling what you believe is not necessarily the best form of persuasion. Patiently explaining why you believe the way you do and demonstrating how those beliefs are not necessarily antithetical to the other person's Life or the choices they are confronted with is and happens to be what 'testimony' is all about. Bridging the gap that remains is the Holy Spirit's job.

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