I had a rather frustrating experience at my local range yesterday and wanted some insight as to how I might have handled things differently.
I have been a member off and on and been visiting this range for several years and familiar with most of the range masters but yesterday there was a new range master I hadn't met before. I had three friends who had expressed interest in shooting and having never shot before wanted to go with me.
I was to meet them up at the range and go through safety etc etc for handgun, and rifle. I got to the range earlier to set up and signed in with the range master. I told him I had three non shooters coming up and that I would be working with them and he immediately told me that he would safety them first.
I didn't think much of this, as it was his range so I went with it. My first friend showed up and the range master comes up and for the next 15 minutes or so proceeds to go through safety, gun handling etc etc with us. I was a little frustrated as I have a process I like to go through with my friends and first time shooters involving gun handling, gun presentation, range rules, making a gun safe etc etc, but I figured I would grin and bear him.
I asked if I would be able to do the safety with my next two friends when they arrived as I had seen his presentation to which he replied no, it was his job. This is where I found myself getting frustrated as I view the responsibility of the range master to keep everything safe, make sure all protocols are followed, look for errant behavior etc etc. I don't view it as his job to teach beyond the basic safety of the range unless requested.
When my other friends showed up he once again came over and took a good 10 -15 minutes going through everything with them. I grew increasingly frustrated when he told my friends girlfriend that she would not be able to rack the slide on the gun as only 20% of women could. He then told her how scared she was while she was holding the gun and that she look terrified.
I asked him to stop telling how how scared she was and that it was not constructive. He told me it was his range and his responsibility. He asked me to not undermine him. He continued moving on to magazine release and making safe the handgun but couldn't manipulate my HK mag release and proclaimed it to be awkward and poorly designed.
Long story longer, he left us to our own devices and I was able to get my friends girlfriend shooting again and reassure her that she was doing great. He then wandered over and while she was shooting told her how terrified she was once again. At this point I told him enough and that he was having more negative effect than positive. He pulled me aside and told me he didn't like my attitude and at his range it was his rules. I told him that I would always speak up if I saw him doing something dangerous on in this case deconstructive to which he told me I was insubordinate and I didn't know the pressure of keeping everyone safe.
Needless to say it was a frustrating experience for us all. I have never had a problem at this range and have had several first time shooters up there with no issues. I am asking for insight into how I could have better handled the situation. Is there precedent for a range master instructing also? Is there anything I could have done differently? Am I out of line? I don't want to be arrogant to the fact that I have plenty to learn and there are lots who know tons more than me, but yesterday was a big disappointment.
I have been a member off and on and been visiting this range for several years and familiar with most of the range masters but yesterday there was a new range master I hadn't met before. I had three friends who had expressed interest in shooting and having never shot before wanted to go with me.
I was to meet them up at the range and go through safety etc etc for handgun, and rifle. I got to the range earlier to set up and signed in with the range master. I told him I had three non shooters coming up and that I would be working with them and he immediately told me that he would safety them first.
I didn't think much of this, as it was his range so I went with it. My first friend showed up and the range master comes up and for the next 15 minutes or so proceeds to go through safety, gun handling etc etc with us. I was a little frustrated as I have a process I like to go through with my friends and first time shooters involving gun handling, gun presentation, range rules, making a gun safe etc etc, but I figured I would grin and bear him.
I asked if I would be able to do the safety with my next two friends when they arrived as I had seen his presentation to which he replied no, it was his job. This is where I found myself getting frustrated as I view the responsibility of the range master to keep everything safe, make sure all protocols are followed, look for errant behavior etc etc. I don't view it as his job to teach beyond the basic safety of the range unless requested.
When my other friends showed up he once again came over and took a good 10 -15 minutes going through everything with them. I grew increasingly frustrated when he told my friends girlfriend that she would not be able to rack the slide on the gun as only 20% of women could. He then told her how scared she was while she was holding the gun and that she look terrified.
I asked him to stop telling how how scared she was and that it was not constructive. He told me it was his range and his responsibility. He asked me to not undermine him. He continued moving on to magazine release and making safe the handgun but couldn't manipulate my HK mag release and proclaimed it to be awkward and poorly designed.
Long story longer, he left us to our own devices and I was able to get my friends girlfriend shooting again and reassure her that she was doing great. He then wandered over and while she was shooting told her how terrified she was once again. At this point I told him enough and that he was having more negative effect than positive. He pulled me aside and told me he didn't like my attitude and at his range it was his rules. I told him that I would always speak up if I saw him doing something dangerous on in this case deconstructive to which he told me I was insubordinate and I didn't know the pressure of keeping everyone safe.
Needless to say it was a frustrating experience for us all. I have never had a problem at this range and have had several first time shooters up there with no issues. I am asking for insight into how I could have better handled the situation. Is there precedent for a range master instructing also? Is there anything I could have done differently? Am I out of line? I don't want to be arrogant to the fact that I have plenty to learn and there are lots who know tons more than me, but yesterday was a big disappointment.

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