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  • A-J
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 2582

    Shooting with my boy

    A few years ago, my son finally said he wanted to learn to shoot (after years of watching me and mom shooting). I was seriously jazzed, to say the least. We spent a lot of time going over everything about everything, with a constant emphasis on how to be safe & the 4 rules. Sadly though, when it came time to literally pull the trigger, my son's hands were shaking so badly he could barely keep the gun pointed down range, and he never actually fired a shot.

    Fast forward to two weeks ago, my son decides he's really ready this time. Then he blew my mind by bringing out all the material from the last time (I printed soooo much paper and pictures) so we could cover all that ground again.

    We went to the range this past Saturday, and at first it was almost exactly like the time before. I loaded one round into the mag for the Mosquito and had him load the gun and take aim. Hands start shaking, but not as bad as last time. I'm back and to the left, in a good position to reach around and take control of the gun if need be. I'm watching his finger as he squeezes the trigger and.....nothing. He lets go and turns to me and says "Nothing happened!"

    Those that don't have or have never shot a mosquito, there is a lot of slack in that trigger, and it's got a pretty heavy pull (especially compared to my other guns).

    I explained to him to keep squeezing until the round goes downrange. He took aim again and eventually... BOOM. Or more accurately POP! And I'll be damned if he didn't put it in the 8 ring, almost on center. He was so surprised he spun around, sweeping the entire place with the muzzle. At least he would have if I hadn't grabbed the gun and his hand and kept it pointing down range, even though it was slide-locked. It kind of took away from the moment, but not by a lot.

    We spent the next 30 minutes shooting, switching targets, and discussing the results. He ended up shooting approximately 80 rounds (minus one stove pipe and a few example shots I fired for him) and hitting not only the target on nearly every shot, but doing a good job of hitting center mass. One of his shots actually clipped the bulls eye.

    He's really excited and is ready to go again, which we'll do in a couple of weeks. Between now and then, we'll go over his shot placement and how they ended up where they did. Overall though, we had a blast with the whole family shooting at once, finally.
    It was not a threat. It was an exaggerated response to an uncompromising stance. I was taught never to make a threat unless you are prepared to carry it out and I am not a fan of carrying anything. Even watching other people carrying things makes me uncomfortable. Mainly because of the possibility they may ask me to help.
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    coryhenry
    Senior Member
    • Jul 2012
    • 1326

    Awesome, I still remember when I took my daughter for the first time.
    Cory

    "Every man dies, not every man really lives!"

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    • #3
      855R
      Member
      • Feb 2010
      • 365

      Good times for sure. I try to do as much with my son as I can, gun related or not while he still wants to hang out with me(he's twelve). I'm even considering picking up a used boat to get some bay/ocean fishing time in. If the fish don't bite I can drag him around the bay in a tube.

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      • #4
        v.kevin
        Senior Member
        • Dec 2014
        • 715

        I have three children 9,10 and 12. My daughter is the youngest and has no interest in shooting. I took my 10 year old to the range and shot the .22 bolt action and had a lot of fun.

        Looking forward to taking both of my boys and letting them shoot my 9mm when they are old enough. My local range sets an age limit on center-fire pistols at 13 and older.

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        • #5
          dsltech
          Member
          • Mar 2015
          • 160

          Good story. How old was he?

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          • #6
            IVC
            I need a LIFE!!
            • Jul 2010
            • 17628

            Originally posted by dsltech
            Good story. How old was he?
            I'd also like to know. I have two girls, 10 and 8, and the older one was all excited when I took her once to watch. She wants to try it, so I'll take her soon.
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            • #7
              onelonehorseman
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2012
              • 4888

              Well done OP!
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              • #8
                Calif Hunter
                Veteran Member
                • Aug 2003
                • 3295

                I've been shooting with my son for years - he is 17 now and goes trap shooting once a month and to a pistol and 3-gun match once a month. He has always been very responsible, as a hunter as well. He's almost beating me at both matches...I's so proud! (He has beat me at trap twice.)

                These are times we'll both remember for as long as we live.

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                • #9
                  Jeepergeo
                  Veteran Member
                  • Feb 2012
                  • 3506

                  Get him on a 22LR bolt action rifle and he'll pick it it very fast and like 99.9% of kids will not want to stop.
                  Benefactor Life Member, National Rifle Association
                  Life Member, California Rifle and Pistol Association

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                  • #10
                    89LT1
                    Member
                    • Sep 2010
                    • 401

                    my son is only 2.5 now and i cant wait for this day... congrats OP

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                    • #11
                      huntercf
                      Veteran Member
                      • Aug 2011
                      • 3114

                      Awesome story OP, I miss taking my kids to the range. My son will go occasionally but my daughter is now 21 and a liberal (wife's fault) so she won't go anymore. I started taking them to the range when they were 5 or 6.

                      Awe, the good ole days.
                      Gun control is a 1" group at 500 yds!

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                      • #12
                        Bigtwin
                        Veteran Member
                        • May 2010
                        • 2639

                        My 5yo daughter has hinted at shooting with daddy.


                        Soon, I can't wait.
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                        • #13
                          A-J
                          Veteran Member
                          • Dec 2011
                          • 2582

                          Thanks for the kind words to everyone. A little background on my son - he's 16 now and is high-functioning autistic (PDD). The high-functioning part means that he gets a lot of stuff right on like any "normal" kid. The PDD part means that the things he doesn't get right he gets really really wrong in a lot of cases. So when I first tried taking him a few years back, he was "willing" but not really able to pull it off. The fact that he broke through, to my mind, is huge, because shooting is a passion for me, and it turns out he really really likes doing it. The biggest breakthrough was that I let him fire my Taurus 9mm. Just one round loaded. Afterwards he was like "that wasn't so hard" because he expected it to kick like a mule (like my wife's 1911).

                          I think I'd like to have him take a shooter's class, even though teaching shooting is one of the things I do very well. Because I want to make sure the entire message sinks in, and sometimes the message is more well-received from someone other than "the parents" as anyone with kids can attest. I'd also like to make sure that he gets as much training as possible. I'm already looking forward to a range day out with the AR, that'll be a hoot. Nothing in the world like ringing steel!
                          It was not a threat. It was an exaggerated response to an uncompromising stance. I was taught never to make a threat unless you are prepared to carry it out and I am not a fan of carrying anything. Even watching other people carrying things makes me uncomfortable. Mainly because of the possibility they may ask me to help.

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                          • #14
                            robledo
                            Senior Member
                            • Jan 2013
                            • 978

                            I'm glad everything turned out well OP! Happy for you.

                            Seriously considering taking my 6.5 year old daughter plinking soon. Not so much to get her into guns but to just get some safety ingrained in her and take some of the mystique away from my firearms.

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                            • #15
                              855R
                              Member
                              • Feb 2010
                              • 365

                              I have a couple of friends with special needs kids, and you fathers(and mothers) have my up most respect. Let me just say thanks for caring enough to not "give up" and being there for your children. It's efforts like yours that will help your child survive this world. I'll never really know what it's like to be in your shoes...

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