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    Senior Member
    • Feb 2009
    • 1055

    Domestic Violence Question

    Ok, so the lady I'm seeing these days went through a semi-nasty divorce awhile back, and well.... Prior to moving back to CA, she lived in Delaware where she and her then husband were both arrested and booked for DV.

    Now, she knows she was arrested for DV, but she can't remember what the final conviction was, and can't find any court documents that give her a break down. She doesn't believe the final charge was DV, because she remembers having to go through a first offender program and counseling and a few other court required things so that she would get leniency

    What is her best course of action for finding out what the conviction was for? My opinion was to call and speak to a county clerk, but we'd both like to know what you all have to say.
    You Better Brace Yourselves For A Whole Lotta Ugly Comin' At You From A Neverending Parade Of Stupid.
  • #2
    Unit74
    Senior Member
    • Apr 2009
    • 2359

    Public records.... As long as she wasn't a Juvi, anyone can find the dispo.

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    • #3
      scootergmc
      Veteran Member
      • Mar 2006
      • 4089

      Have her call the court directly. As long as she remembers where this happened, she'll be able to get answers.

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      • #4
        mlatino
        Veteran Member
        • Jun 2009
        • 2762

        RUN.





        Just kidding. You can find out through the county court.
        Originally posted by DREADNOUGHT78
        Lol! Hey great time!!! I am beat tired and dude is definately getting his Hummer tomorrow!

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        • #5
          Fire in the Hole
          Senior Member
          • Oct 2008
          • 1563

          It's kind of hard for me to believe that an arrested person of a misdemeanor/felony wouldn't know what they were charged with or finally convicted of. I just can not relate to this, um...let's call it disinterest or indifference. But either the DA's Office or Court can provide her this information. Be prepared to go to a Notary Public for signature and ID verification. Perhaps the Court has a downloadable request form on it's website, under FAQ's.

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          • #6
            PorkLover
            Senior Member
            • Apr 2008
            • 951

            best bet is the court clerks office and ask for the court minutes or order; if she can remember who her attorney was, she could also call them.........I'm with Fire in the Hole, how do you not know what you were convicted of?.....I mean, you were in court when they sentenced you, obviously she knew what she had to do if she completed counseling or a program.......

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            • #7
              Neil McCauley
              I need a LIFE!!
              • Jun 2006
              • 13676

              Originally posted by mlatino
              RUN.





              Just kidding. You can find out through the county court.
              I think he's meeting women where I meet em
              A guy told me one time "don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat from around the corner"
              Robert Deniro

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              • #8
                Keith92555
                Junior Member
                • Jun 2009
                • 47

                I had to go through this recently for my CCW permit. Call the Clerk of the Court in the county where she was convicted. She may have to fax them a letter requesting the information be released over the phone. The clerk can then tell her what the dispo was. They can also send her a disposition letter stating the charges, the sentence, and if the sentence was served/completed (community service/counseling/fine...).

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