LEO questions, glendale, ca

[villabroza]

So I live with my mother me her and her step mom. We are estranged from my father because he's pretty much living piece of crap. So anyways my mother confronted him because he stopped by to talk to my sister that is home from college on sunday, which he never does. He got mad and came by earlier today while we were all at work and told my step-granny that he's going to tell the police that my guns are illegal, they are not, i literally have all the DROS paperwork in a folder. TBH it kinda pissed me off and shook me because all he would have to do is call the police and say I was threatening him, which i haven't even looked at the guy, and the police will come running in a confiscate them all. Should I be the one to call the cops first and tell him he's not supposed to be here, my mother does not have a restraining order on him and they have not been formerly divorced, but have been separated for over 10 years now?
Any advice, honestly i know he doesn't have any leverage, but cali/cops in general here are too gun grabby. Should i store them in my girlfriends house?

[Aces and 8s]

Without any evidence of you actually threatened him, you're fine. It will be his word against yours and your mothers, and your granny. His complaint would be taken with a grain of salt, assuming everything you've said is true. You're fine.

[villabroza]

ok thanks, yeah, i didn't even know he knew i owned a few firearms, i guess he found out somehow. thanks for giving me some fresh air aces

[mdimeo]

You can get your own restraining order.

[00Medic]

You can get your own restraining order.

^THIS!!

Get a restraining order against him and tell him to hit the bricks. If he comes around again call GPD and they'll have a talk with him.

[villabroza]

i'll look into a restraining order, don't even know where to start, how much does one run you?

[alexisjohnson]

I'd file a report....just so you have some paperwork showing the nature of the relationship. It would help in a he says...she says type of situation..

[villabroza]

I'd file a report....just so you have some paperwork showing the nature of the relationship. It would help in a he says...she says type of situation..

I told my mother that we should call the police first and tell them about this. I think I will later today

[38Special]

Your Mom needs to get a divorce. Even will separated she can be liable for things he does.

[eta34]

^ Huh? Care to elaborate?

[38Special]

^ Huh? Care to elaborate?

If he were to be sued, in a accident, etc she could still be held liable since they are still legally married. Any assets she has could be legally his because CA is a community property State.

[Spec]

without a legal separation/divorce he COULD come to the house and gain entry.

If he is a threat to you or your family and you reside at the home you can get a restraining order against him. will it add fuel to the fire ? maybe, but it could protect you if he decides to be stupid.

I wouldn't risk a he said / she said - what if - with my 2A rights in Kalifornia.

I don't see what report you could make with GPD unless he was trespassing and there are certain criteria that must be met in order to establish trespassing violations.

if he has made threats against the family you should report it and make sure you get a report number or a copy of the report. it will help with the restraining order.

it is his right to be a douchebag.

You need to protect yourself ( and your guns) as well as your family.

[MotoFahren]

Make sure your guns are locked up and secure.

[ls2monaro]

Maybe move out and get your own place so you can be the adult who decides who comes onto your property or not.

[villabroza]

Thanks guys, yes I am planning to move out, by the end of the year, still helping my mother with bills and such. My guns are locked up, I just don't know how to go about getting a restraining order