NYSD issue.

[CWDraco]

I doubt the NYSD operates the same as here, but is there a way to talk to a Deputy without alerting his department of an issue?

I do not want to get this Deputy in any trouble, but I would like to hear his side of the story.

My 28 year old son was pulled over for taking too long changing lanes.

My son was a 4.0 student, AA in Criminal Justice (which is part of the problem here I think) an AA in business currently working on his BA while managing a restaurant.

He fully admits to mouthing off and raising his hand at the Deputy as a way to blow him off...the "I'm not listening to you" wave. That is where the learning curve started.

He slammed his head into the hood of his truck twice, once causing a bloody nose the other a small shinner under his left eye.

3 Deputies on scene, ran checks on my son and the two girls with him. Then let them go.

Small town SD know people. If my son is running with the wrong people and that prompted the stop with associated "learning", I want to know....or should I just stay out of it.

Son doesnt want to push it at all.

Thank you for any input

[Tovarish]

I'm not law enforcement but I can't imagine the officer just volunteering that information to you, especially seeing as force was used.

[Country_Jim]

I doubt the NYSD operates the same as here, but is there a way to talk to a Deputy without alerting his department of an issue?

I do not want to get this Deputy in any trouble, but I would like to hear his side of the story.

My 28 year old son was pulled over for taking too long changing lanes.

My son was a 4.0 student, AA in Criminal Justice (which is part of the problem here I think) an AA in business currently working on his BA while managing a restaurant.

He fully admits to mouthing off and raising his hand at the Deputy as a way to blow him off...the "I'm not listening to you" wave. That is where the learning curve started.

He slammed his head into the hood of his truck twice, once causing a bloody nose the other a small shinner under his left eye.

3 Deputies on scene, ran checks on my son and the two girls with him. Then let them go.

Small town SD know people. If my son is running with the wrong people and that prompted the stop with associated "learning", I want to know....or should I just stay out of it.

Son doesnt want to push it at all.

Thank you for any input

Your son should learn to be respectful and not raise his hand (an act of aggression) at a LE officer. If it were me, your son would have been arrested. My question is, why are you coddling a 28 year old man? Let him grow up.

[CBR_rider]

There really isn't anyway to do that unless you just want to call the station and ask to speak with the LEO by name. Was your son cited?

[Rogue187]

Don't think your going to get information. If there is no investigation happening then your treading into dangerous waters.. Why is daddy protecting a 28 year old man.? His dismissive attitude got him an attitude adjustment. It could have been worse. He could have been arrested. Your not LE and the officer is under no obligation to speak with you. Doesn't matter if you want to hear the other side of the story. If you push it I'm sure you can hear the other side of the story in court after your son is arrested.


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[jdubs71]

What is it that your son is not telling you? That's where I would start. Say you do talk to the Deputy and he denies the allegstions, who do you belive?

[CWDraco]

What is it that your son is not telling you? That's where I would start. Say you do talk to the Deputy and he denies the allegstions, who do you belive?

exactly... Small town SDs dont pull over people over for bullcrap reasons and they dont administer roadside attitude adjustments without due cause. I just want to know what the back story is. I am missing a part of this story.

Yeah my son is 28. His age has nothing to do with my concern over his life choices, and I am still a father who can guide him away from bad choices.

One of the girls knew the SD from high school, and told her mother, who informed me.

I'm not going to contact the Station. I look at it this way.
1- If a person gave an SD reason to slam his head into the hood of a truck TWICE, why wasnt the person arrested or cited?

2- Most departments have rules on physical force, this level might require arrest and I dont want to open a can or worms.