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  • Maddog5150
    I need a LIFE!!
    • Feb 2006
    • 10526

    Need some advice on relationships guys (about to deploy)

    I didnt want to put this in the general off topic forum since I feel you guys here would be better equipped to help me out. Here is the short story.
    Fell in love with a girl. Everything was going great but then she always takes a "vacation" every two months to go see her "friend" at Ft Cambell. So this POG is doing god knows what as he is telling her he is SF and high speed. He threatened me on myspace which is pretty pathetic and wouldnt ever expect that from an elite. I checked out his profile and he is FAT and old and she told me he can't pass his 2 mile PT test run. (pretty sure SF pt test is a lot farther than 2 miles) and he is supposedly been in the Army for 15 years and is SF yet he is still E5. I thought SF promotes way faster especially in that amount of time frame.
    So he is lying to her and well, we all know whats probably going on. I thought I was going to marry this girl eventually. I gave her a little bit of space so she could make a decision in her life then she starts all this ****. I think she is just playing me now. One day we have great sex then the next day, "oh that was the last time. we are just friends." and goes back and fourth. She was one of the only people who wrote to me all the time when I was at OSUT so I thought she cared about me. She randomly deleted me off of myspace, I called her out on it and, "oh i didnt mean to. Sorry. I'll call you tomorrow."
    I leave in three months for a year and this is pretty much the first time I've been actually in love.
    Advice? I refuse to drop to his level and threaten him over the internet or on the phone. He does come out here once in a while. Oh yeah. He is currently married but going through a divorce. He doesnt want to push the papers till he gets back (he is deploying shortly also) so he can get the extra cash.
    Last edited by Maddog5150; 04-21-2009, 7:40 PM. Reason: meant he cant pass his pt test
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  • #2
    armygunsmith
    Senior Member
    • Oct 2008
    • 2087

    Sorry but it's clear that the relationship is a one way street. Kick her to the curb, you'll get over her soon enough. Besides, you need to keep a clear head when you're in the sand box. If you're dealing with drama at home while overseas you could get someone killed. Be safe when you're over there.
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    • #3
      sorensen440
      Calguns Addict
      • Mar 2007
      • 8611

      I would end it
      "I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it." - Thomas Jefferson

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      • #4
        clonepsi
        Junior Member
        • Apr 2009
        • 93

        She sounds like trouble. Get rid of her

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        • #5
          PatriotnMore
          Calguns Addict
          • Nov 2007
          • 7068

          Maddog5150, I agree with what has been said. I am not big on handing out relationship advice, but I think you need to let this one go.

          I know that is difficult, as you say you are in love, but love is reciprocal, by two people, and it sounds like you don't have that. You are going on deployment, and this is the perfect time to walk. I would add, you need your head in the game, and the distraction of drama at home is not in your best interest.

          You are young, in the service, which is a demanding mistress, be patient. When the right woman comes along, and the timing is good, it will all be worth it.
          ‎"If Congress can do whatever in their discretion can be done by money, and will promote the General Welfare, the Government is no longer a limited one, possessing enumerated powers, but an indefinite one, subject to particular exceptions."
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          'Letter to Edmund Pendleton', 1792

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          • #6
            Requiem
            Senior Member
            • Dec 2008
            • 1725

            Sounds like a dog tag chasing whore. Leave her.
            .

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            • #7
              mk19
              Member
              • Jul 2007
              • 366

              Falling in love such a western non-sense. i say dump her and move on. Her is a bit of AJ secret- never tell a girl you love her, only exception is when you are about to get some and say it while not meaning it. the crappier-not abusive, that is not cool- you treat a chick the more she'd love you.
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              • #8
                dwa
                Senior Member
                • Apr 2008
                • 2452

                i would keep it how it is, just dont trust her. when you get mid tour leave tour leave you have your first stop lined up, and someone who might send u packages while deployed. just keep your money in your pocket.
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                • #9
                  ivanimal
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                  CGN Contributor - Lifetime
                  • Sep 2002
                  • 14357

                  Say good bye to her for good.
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                  • #10
                    Maddog5150
                    I need a LIFE!!
                    • Feb 2006
                    • 10526

                    For my mid tour leave I was going to tour europe. check out amsterdam, swedan (I hear the chicks there love americans) see the beaches of normandy.
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                    • #11
                      Manong0369
                      Member
                      • Apr 2009
                      • 193

                      Enjoy life. This "PX Ranger" is not worth the trouble. If she is see you and that other guy, then what's to say that she will not do it to him. Get her out of you mind and focus on coming on safely. Keep safe!
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                      • #12
                        jmlivingston
                        Moderator Emeritus
                        CGN Contributor - Lifetime
                        • Oct 2005
                        • 5095

                        Life's too short to spend it focused on drama queens....

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                        • #13
                          .22guy
                          Calguns Addict
                          • Nov 2006
                          • 5863

                          Walk away, right now.

                          Refuse her calls, don't answer emails. Trust me, it's for the best.
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                          • #14
                            Maddog5150
                            I need a LIFE!!
                            • Feb 2006
                            • 10526

                            Yeah. its hard but you all are right. Funny how its the stupid **** in life that gets you all wrapped up.
                            On another note. Isnt it illegal in UCMJ for this poser to claim SF? And illegal in UCMJ to be banging her if he is married?
                            Buy my EO Tech XPS3-0!!!

                            For those nutjobs who like to use the word "gouge"
                            Note: I did not write the above article.

                            Any carpenters in Socal want a side project?

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                            • #15
                              sorensen440
                              Calguns Addict
                              • Mar 2007
                              • 8611

                              Dont worry about the other guy
                              he is not the problem just one of the symptoms
                              "I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it." - Thomas Jefferson

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