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  • TheReluctantCraftstronaut
    Member
    • Aug 2017
    • 430

    Fatherhood and the 2A

    Does anyone have books or other resources they recommend on fatherhood in relation to sharing firearms and the outdoors with children?

    A few months ago I told my wife that it would be neat if we had a child born on or near my birthday someday. Well, my son must have been listening because he was born six weeks early, just three days before my 30th.

    He's been home from NICU for about a month and doing great. As far as we can see so far, he's very healthy all things considered. I'm fortunate enough to still be mostly on vacation from work, so we've been bonding and losing sleep together for a while now.

    I know it's a bit early to do anything firearms/hunting related, but since my days are filled with waking hours to think about raising my son, I've been day dreaming of his first camping/fishing/hunting/shooting trips and how I can make those moments a good balance between plain old fun and teaching moments.

    I think a lot of the teaching moments will come naturally, but a little forethought doesn't hurt. I'm mostly interested in some creative ideas and perspectives on things to help me think outside of the box with some future activities.

    I was fortunate enough to grow up on land surrounded by nothing but desert, so was easy for my dad to bring me to the outdoors.

    On weekends we would bury gallon and 5-gallon buckets flush with the ground to trap crawling things. Every day before and after work we would check our traps and bring a snake catcher with us too. Caught a lot of gopher snakes, king snakes, scorpions, lizards, and spiders on those trips. My dad would teach me whatever he knew about the animals we caught and then we'd send them back on their way.

    My dad did a lot of pest control with a .410 and would bring my dog and I along. My dad taught me the importance of making good, clean hits on an animal and on safety with a bird dog in the field.

    Would bring my little bow and arrows everywhere to do a little target practice while my mom or dad worked on part of the property.

    Thinking of these kinds of ideas and how to incorporate love for things not on a screen.
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    Rogue187
    Senior Member
    • Feb 2007
    • 1157

    Sounds like your heading in the right direction.
    There is a book out there that I think is called "Things a Father should know"
    The title may be something along those lines.

    Your son sounds like he blessed as my father never did any of those things with me but I learned thru Scouting.

    Show him properly and encourage him.. That's about all we can do. I show and encourage my boy.. He's growing up nicely.

    Good Luck!

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    • #3
      Yodaman
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      • Aug 2012
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      • #4
        1911Brian
        Member
        • Jul 2017
        • 136

        Awesome man your going to make a great dad ! It seems you got everything covered with your own childhood experiences.
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        • #5
          BumBum
          Senior Member
          CGN Contributor
          • Jan 2013
          • 1607

          By thinking about these things, you’re already way ahead of the game compared to many other folks. I have an infant son as well and find myself thinking about these same things. He’s 9 months old and I’ve already had him out camping and out at the zombie shoot. I have realized that these things just happen naturally and you will do things that you find to be age-appropriate as you go. My dad, his dad, his dad’s dad, and so on, realize that none of them had any books or other resources to rely on. We will do just fine.
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          • #6
            tomrkba
            Senior Member
            • Jun 2016
            • 1513

            Decot Familty Shooters on youtube is a good resource

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            • #7
              Jeepergeo
              Veteran Member
              • Feb 2012
              • 3506

              Father's that take their sons and daughters hunting won't later on find themselves hunting for their sons and daughters.

              The same thing generally applies to camping and backpacking.
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              • #8
                socal m1 shooter
                Senior Member
                • Dec 2013
                • 1617

                If your finances permit, knowing what we know, buying a firearm or two for the boy now and holding it until he is of age might not be such a bad idea.

                That is one thing I did... shortly after my oldest was born, I bought a CMP M1 to hold for him. I just went to a match with him (and that rifle) last month, and plan to attend a couple more.
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                • #9
                  SISKIN
                  Senior Member
                  • Sep 2017
                  • 872

                  It was my mother who taught me to shoot .. Pop's did not want to have anything to do with Firearms .. He was a WW2 vet ... Guess he saw enough ..

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                  • #10
                    damon1272
                    Veteran Member
                    • Aug 2006
                    • 4857

                    I will be stealing your bucket trap for my boys.
                    As far as what I have done, I got them into scouts but scouting is morally and financially bankrupt.

                    Make sure you get them into the outdoors, camping, hiking, and understanding nature and how the world works.
                    One thing I did was when my boys were born I had lowers ingraved with their birthdate and initials. I have had my oldest sons lower sitting waiting for him to build it for the last 11 years. Come March he will get to build it and build his own rifle.

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                    • #11
                      ChuckDizzle
                      Banned
                      • Dec 2013
                      • 4398

                      He's going to love all that stuff, don't worry. Boys just do, he'll be making guns out of sticks before you know it.

                      Buy him a Savage Rascal. It's the best youth model single shot .22 on the market. My 9 year old son has almost outgrown his and I'm looking forward to a custom build semi auto for him.

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                      • #12
                        r8dr rider
                        Senior Member
                        • Mar 2009
                        • 1983

                        I made my 2 yo shoot my 357. Go big or go home

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                        • #13
                          bbodybill
                          Member
                          • May 2011
                          • 399

                          NOT necessarily what you TEACH...

                          But what you DO... Kinda scary what they pick up from your actions/Life you live.... Guess I was just lucky :-)
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                          • #14
                            FlyingShooter
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                            • Jun 2012
                            • 831

                            Yup, start buying for him now OP. My son turns 2 next week, but for his first b-day I bought him a youth 870 20ga. Obviously, he’s a long way off from being able to enjoy it, but it will be fun to tell him it was his 1st b-day present from dad. This B-day I think I will build him an AR

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                            • #15
                              wurger
                              Senior Member
                              • Dec 2011
                              • 1433

                              Airsoft in the back yard is a good start.

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