I had a quick question. I got a negative feedback for a transaction that i was physically unable to make it to. Back ground story, one month ago i contacted a guy in so cal about his sd9 for sale. His post said he was regularly in sacremento which i am close to so i put a SPF on his thread. Turns out he wasent here regularly and was a little over a month away (he was coming up for a wedding on the 8th of june). Fast foward to june 4th i believe, he contacts me and ask if im still interested i told him yes and he said he was gonna contact me later with a ffl to meet at and a time for our meet later on. I never recived the call from him because on june 6th i was in a severe motorcycle accident and was hospitalized until june 9th and unable to contact anyone till june 12th. On june 12th i let him know what happened And appplogized for any inconvience it may have caused him. He replied back with the fact he was going to give me negative feedback in which he just did today. The thing is i understand and feel like $h*t this happened but his version of events are bias/untruthful in my feedback description and i think at very worst warranted a neutral feedback as there was no loss on his part other than time. Mind you this is my first negative feedback and i have a flawless A+ rating which is now destroyed over this. I guess my question is should i request my feedback be changed to neutral and should i request a truthful version of events be portrayed to my feedback description.
His feedback below
"In buyer's defense, he later said he was in an accident. However, I marked the post as SPF for a couple of months to this user and refused a couple other offers, then I transported it over 250 miles, no response/replies to calls or texts until a few days after or original appointment to meet at the FFL."
My response and what actuallly happened
Version of events are skewed. While it is true i did in mark this SPF (1 month prior) and we agreed on a date of june,8,2018 i was in a severe motorcycle accident on june,6,2018 and hospitalized until the june,9,2018 unable to communicate with anyone until june,12,2018 when i got into contact with mark to let him know and appologize. I wanted to clarify some aspects that are not accurate.
(1) It was not spf for 2 months as per our pms dates (few days over the one month mark).
(2) We had not actually set up a ffl or time yet. The description of events makes it seem as if we set a ffl/time and i had him hanging at a shop waiting on a no show (not true and makes a big difference)
(3) He also made it seem as if he specifically drove 250 miles to make this transaction happen when in fact he was headed here for a friends wedding on june,8,2018 (hence the reason it was SPF for a month and i had to wait)
Now like i told him, i except full responsibility and am extremely sorry that i had this unfortunate event happen to me but i would appreciate a truthful accurate version of events portrayed.
His feedback below
"In buyer's defense, he later said he was in an accident. However, I marked the post as SPF for a couple of months to this user and refused a couple other offers, then I transported it over 250 miles, no response/replies to calls or texts until a few days after or original appointment to meet at the FFL."
My response and what actuallly happened
Version of events are skewed. While it is true i did in mark this SPF (1 month prior) and we agreed on a date of june,8,2018 i was in a severe motorcycle accident on june,6,2018 and hospitalized until the june,9,2018 unable to communicate with anyone until june,12,2018 when i got into contact with mark to let him know and appologize. I wanted to clarify some aspects that are not accurate.
(1) It was not spf for 2 months as per our pms dates (few days over the one month mark).
(2) We had not actually set up a ffl or time yet. The description of events makes it seem as if we set a ffl/time and i had him hanging at a shop waiting on a no show (not true and makes a big difference)
(3) He also made it seem as if he specifically drove 250 miles to make this transaction happen when in fact he was headed here for a friends wedding on june,8,2018 (hence the reason it was SPF for a month and i had to wait)
Now like i told him, i except full responsibility and am extremely sorry that i had this unfortunate event happen to me but i would appreciate a truthful accurate version of events portrayed.





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