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Old 08-17-2019, 1:50 PM
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Long story short. Met a cute girl. She gave me her number. Went to dinner and we had so much to talk about that we didn’t get to what we did for a living until half an hour into our dinner. I find out she’s a LEO. I was carrying and didn’t know how to tell her that I was without making it awkward. I know that my CCW says I’m supposed to inform an officer that I’m carrying but not under these types of contact, right?

I just leave my gun at home now when I see her.
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Lol, seriously? You don't have to inform if you pass a cop on the street... I can see it now, walking down Hollywood Blvd and a cop is just patrolling down the street excuse me officer, just so you know I am a ccw holder and am carrying!

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Just treat her right. Good news is that you probably have conservative beliefs in common. If it progresses further, remember she may be impressed with the gun in your pants, why spoil the surprise?

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Try not to be influenced by her ability to get you off roster stuff.
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Yeah not sure if you are for really. No need to inform her or stop carrying. She will find out when the time arises. I hope she is carrying off duty.
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Long story short. Met a cute girl. She gave me her number. Went to dinner and we had so much to talk about that we didn’t get to what we did for a living until half an hour into our dinner. I find out she’s a LEO. I was carrying and didn’t know how to tell her that I was without making it awkward. I know that my CCW says I’m supposed to inform an officer that I’m carrying but not under these types of contact, right?

I just leave my gun at home now when I see her.
You're going to be sleeping with half her dept. if you bed her, and when you get to that point she'll know you have "protection".
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Relax most carry off duty. Its dumb if you dont in my opinion. To dangerous not to now adays, no respect left anymore.
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And hers is probably bigger than yours.
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In your case, I'd show your CCW permit and have the next date at a range. Bring protection.
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In your case, I'd show your CCW permit and have the next date at a range. Bring protection.
Eyes and ears?

Btw OP, IMO, no need to stop carrying...
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Dude just show her your permit and be done with it. I'm sure she will be fine with it, might actually think higher of you .
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I wouldn’t tell her or show her... let her find out when you hit the sack. If she’s the right type of girl, it will crank her up
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Yeah, no. Let her know before then. If she digs it, then there's no problem. If she's not, then that's a bad place for her to find out.
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Treating her in her official capacity during a date would sure kill any romantic connection quickly. "Officer, I have to disclose that I have a permit and am packing some serious M'Fing heat right now." If she eventually feels it in your waistband I'm sure she'll just ask if you have a permit, and if so, just forget about it. Or she might say "great, now I can leave that pain in the as piece at home whenever we go out." Unless she is of the opinion that only the ruling class and not commoners should be trusted with guns, and then you'll know it's time to eject.
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In reading this thread, I am reminded of this movie scene of 2 police officers dating from "Police Academy 2"!


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Say you have a badge also and show her your CCW badge.
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C'mon... She's already run your plates and your name. She probably already knows what you carry, what your blood type is, and how much you made last year.
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Say you have a badge also and show her your CCW badge.
Lmao
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Wait, you went out with her and now you’re going to leave your gun at home?

I would never leave mine at home...mostly because it’s permanently attached.


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I wanna know if the OP asked his date if he was being detained.....
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Sounds like OP bragging about dating a Cop..Cops are not impress or care that you have a CCW...think Op wants attention here
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OP doesn't need one. He can clip a CCW badge on his belt next to his gun and look like a detective.
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Try not to be influenced by her ability to get you off roster stuff.
🤣🤣 that was the second thing I thought of when I found out she’s LEO
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C'mon... She's already run your plates and your name. She probably already knows what you carry, what your blood type is, and how much you made last year.
^^So True, If she hasn't run you her ex boyfriend for sure did when he followed you on that date.
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Op is probably just waiting for his first Stop And Frisk before she finds his gun.
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Go with dumb.


Then I feel bad for the supposed female cop that he said he had a date with. Her judgement on men she dates is flawed.


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Tried the handcuffs on yet?
OP, you want flesh-eating bacteria? Because that’s how you get flesh-eating bacteria.
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Long story short. Met a cute girl. She gave me her number. Went to dinner and we had so much to talk about that we didn’t get to what we did for a living until half an hour into our dinner. I find out she’s a LEO. I was carrying and didn’t know how to tell her that I was without making it awkward. I know that my CCW says I’m supposed to inform an officer that I’m carrying but not under these types of contact, right?

I just leave my gun at home now when I see her.
Dude, this story sounds pathetic.
Just say’n.

Come on man, now you guys have something to really talk about. You both have something in common. We are rooting for ya!
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She's treated like a cop all day long at work. It's what she does for living, it doesn't define who she is as a person. How about you treat her as (see her as) a girlfriend and not like a cop? Would you feel obligated to tell any other, non cop, girl you are dating?
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If things progress and she pins you down and gets on top...hit her with the old "am I being detained?" and smile. Either she'll get a laugh out of it or things will come to a screeching halt and you'll go home with blue balls.

In regards to the CCW stuff, be a man and do what you do. Don't stop carrying because you're worried about her. If you're worried, TALK to her. It's really that simple.

Suggest a range day as a date idea.....

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