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Ladies Forum A place for our female Calgunners to discuss, share and interact without the 'excess attention' sometimes found in online forums.

View Poll Results: If I found dirty pics of another woman my husband had had sex with on his phone, I'd
kick him out for a few days to think 12 15.79%
fill out divorce papers, but not file right away 6 7.89%
file for divorce right away 41 53.95%
forgive and forget 17 22.37%
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Old 06-16-2009, 3:09 PM
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Ahem.

For all you serious guys who must tell us women shooters a thing or two, please to remember this little tidbit regarding the Ladies Forum:
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Frankly I haven't talked with that many female shooters, here on Calguns or IRL. But I would suspect the one other thing we women have in common, besides a love of firearms, is our independence. Which also means we have come to trust our thinking. Now some of you guys are just tops and really care about us as shooters. And I know, because I've met and shot with and even learned from some of you. But for some of you to come in here and tell us how to think and post?! Pu-leeze. We're women, we don't think like you guys. We don't expect or demand you to think like us, now do we? And why should? That's why we women, well, some of us, like you guys. Because you're not like us. So gender differences are a good thing and worthy of respecting. Let's keep it that way.

As to the OP, I sympathize with her plight. But the decision is ultimately up to her. Anyway the one thing true about us women is we really have to get other women's opinions about certain things. We need that moral support. And other female Calgunners had chimed in, so I decided I'd throw something in from left field. [Sigh] We women, we're such neurotics. We tend to blame ourselves when we should put the blame where it belongs -- on the jerk. lol
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Ditto on jerks. Makes me appreciate nice guys all the more!
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Well, if you have access to a gun, why isn't he dead by now?

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"Well your honor, I killed my husband because I posted my quandry on calguns.net and a person named masameet asked why he isn't dead yet. I got to thinking about it and figured he was right".

Don't kill your husband. You know what your relationship can withstand. If you decide to leave him, plan it out, take him for every thing he has. How dare him risk your health by bringing home God knows what that he may have gotten from his girlfriend.
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We haven't heard from the OP.

Oh, well. Maybe she took my advice after all.
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We haven't heard from the OP.

Oh, well. Maybe she took my advice after all.
No, no, I'm still here. LOL.

If I were going to kill anyone, it would be the other woman, because she knew EXACTLY what she was doing when she started the whole thing. But I am not a killer by nature, and would inevitably get caught (I have no ninja skills), so...

UPDATE: I let him come home on Sunday. Marriage counseling begins the 29th of this month and will happen every Monday thereafter. And he knows he has a LOT of making up to do for this one...

Thanks again everyone!
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Ditto on jerks. Makes me appreciate nice guys all the more!
Nice guys? You mean they still exist?
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But I am not a killer by nature,
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No, no, I'm still here. LOL.

If I were going to kill anyone, it would be the other woman, because she knew EXACTLY what she was doing when she started the whole thing. But I am not a killer by nature, and would inevitably get caught (I have no ninja skills), so...

UPDATE: I let him come home on Sunday. Marriage counseling begins the 29th of this month and will happen every Monday thereafter. And he knows he has a LOT of making up to do for this one...

Thanks again everyone!
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Ditto on jerks. Makes me appreciate nice guys all the more!
OMG!!! You don't know how good that sounds!!! Nice guys are baffled buy how a lot of women seem to gravitate to users and abusers!!!
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Sooooo is the OP single yet?
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File and be free from cheaters! Single yet? Lets go shooting to get rid of frustration.
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From what I read she and her husband were going to counseling, but there hasn't been any updates on their progress... after reading the thread I'm totally curious how things are going. Frankly, I'm not as gracious as the OP, I would have INSTANTLY filed for divorce after transforming my husband into a eunuch!
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From what I read she and her husband were going to counseling, but there hasn't been any updates on their progress... after reading the thread I'm totally curious how things are going. Frankly, I'm not as gracious as the OP, I would have INSTANTLY filed for divorce after transforming my husband into a eunuch!

Lol... my husband jokingly tells all his friends how he behaves because his wife can outshoot him. They thought he was insane when we were dating and they found out what I like to do at the range. He's a sweetie and has taken good notes of what happened to my ex - snicker...
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OMG!!! You don't know how good that sounds!!! Nice guys are baffled buy how a lot of women seem to gravitate to users and abusers!!!

It's strange, but before I got married to my current husband, he said almost the exact thing to me -- that nice guys really come in last.

I think you have 500 bonus points in the Nice Guy Dept by just being a Calgunner!
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You will be in my and my wifes prayers. I cant begin to imagine how you must feel. Be blessed and be in prayer.
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Lol... my husband jokingly tells all his friends how he behaves because his wife can outshoot him. They thought he was insane when we were dating and they found out what I like to do at the range. He's a sweetie and has taken good notes of what happened to my ex - snicker...
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I sincerely hope that things worked out and that you are not stuck in a situation with a cheater because of financial commitments and kids with the man.
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Seems to me like this guy is a fool. My X cheated on me. We broke up, and got back together 3 months later. Still couldn't trust her. Men and women aren't really all that different. Some cheat, Some don't. There's no law against it. Yet. It just depends on what a person can omit from their conscience. I understand your feelings. It's a tough decision.
You have to do what you feel is right to bring permanent closure to this matter, Or you will be reliving it the rest of your life. In my opinion, It's time to move on. I've found that being alone is better than being stabbed in the back by someone you thought you could trust and wondering if it will happen again.
I wish you the best. J.
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