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Old 05-25-2009, 7:22 PM
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Default I HATE getting stood up!

Responded to a For Sale Ad. Had postitive exchange via PMs.
Seller said they'd be in San Jose today. Today has come and gone...Not one word. Nada.

I should have known it'd be a weird one when he posted a second had with a higher price for the EXACT SAME GUN!!!

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Old 05-25-2009, 7:29 PM
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Oh Damn. Sorry about that. That's just not honorable.
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Old 05-25-2009, 8:09 PM
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Man I can't STAND flaky people! Sry it happened to you.
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Old 05-25-2009, 8:33 PM
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To the OP PM one of the higher up Mods Kestryll, Ivanimal, Leelaw
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Old 05-25-2009, 10:41 PM
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Thanks, guys
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Old 05-25-2009, 11:02 PM
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Old 05-26-2009, 12:25 AM
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That sucks. I got stood up with one of my transaction too. I should have left a negative feedback for that guy. Sorry to hear that. The person is a jerk.
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Old 05-26-2009, 12:42 AM
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Out them, if they dont respond as to why they did this to you.
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Old 05-26-2009, 2:40 PM
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n i thought u were talking about getting stood up for a date.. i got stood up 2 days ago. now that doesnt feel good.. its koo though cuss im going out with her (better looking) friend tommorow. ; ]
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Old 05-26-2009, 3:00 PM
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the deal isn't started until you have a PHONE NUMBER.
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Old 05-26-2009, 10:28 PM
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I had a trade going with another CalGunner via PMs. He even set a date on when we can do a PPT and I agreed to it. A few days later I see a post of his gun back up for sale. I pm'd him to ask if we were still on for the PPT. I never received one word back from him. He could of just manned up and told me that he has now decided to sell it instead of doing a trade. I would of respected that of him. So to the OP, I feel your pain. I really hate flakers.
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what a loser that person is... i always fear the same thing happening to me whenever i have an uncoming FTF transactions. i guess that's why i never go further than just outside city limits to handle a deal and always get a phone number exchange. if i cant reach them as the meeting time approaches, i don't go... sorry for your wasted time and effort. spill the beans and say who it is...
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http://www.calguns.net/calgunforum/s...d.php?t=184883

http://www.calguns.net/calgunforum/s...d.php?t=185377

I bet it is this sale.
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Old 05-27-2009, 3:54 PM
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the deal isn't started until you have a PHONE NUMBER.
The deal is done when some one says they will take it.
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Old 05-27-2009, 10:57 PM
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Yeah Mike-
What kind of a loon starts two separate threads for the same gun? I feel like a bigger dumbie for posting on the second one.

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the deal isn't started until you have a PHONE NUMBER.
Thanks for the advice Paul-
but for me someone's word is worth more than me keeping tabs on them. I'm not here to be someone's mommy. I've had succesful deals in this and other forums on little more than an isntant message.

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The deal is done when some one says they will take it.
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that's exactly how it should be. Or better yet, when the seller says "it's yours."
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Old 05-27-2009, 11:07 PM
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I'm almost bit on that one too, but it just wasn't right. Not enough info, dupe posts, etc.
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Old 05-28-2009, 1:46 PM
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misleading thread in the LADIES FORUM? i certainly didn't expect it to be what it is.........

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I got stood up on a deal where I was supposed to sell one LMT detachable carry handle and one BCM M4 handguard for $110 shipped. Once the deal was agreed upon via PM the buyer has not been heard of. It will be two weeks on Saturday since we made the deal. I sent two PMs since then, the last I gave a deadline on when I will still accept the payment. The Calgunner in question only has 9 posts, all of them in the WTB/WTS section. I hate those people who just use Calguns to buy and sell only to not make good on a deal. I am waiting until Saturday until I submit negative iTrader feedback for this member.

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Old 05-28-2009, 2:56 PM
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Men are pigs.
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Old 05-29-2009, 9:14 AM
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Men are pigs.
time to go pig huntn?
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Old 05-29-2009, 11:49 AM
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Men are pigs.
God bless 'em, LOL

I'm okay with outing them (howevr negative feedback?), with only a handful of posts, it's not like he has such sa big investment in these forums.
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Old 05-29-2009, 6:15 PM
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Yeah, thats messed up!
Atleast have the decency to say, "sorry for wasting your time, but I dont want it anymore" before not showing up
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Old 05-30-2009, 2:52 AM
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I will never stood you lovely ladies up....
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Old 05-30-2009, 9:38 AM
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I like the part where he was asked if it was taken and he said "no one has paid or commited"...where just hours eariler in the first thread you said you'd take it....what a $#%#!!!
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Old 06-09-2009, 9:34 AM
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the latest is that now its $300 AND he didn't come up Memorial Weekend but is in San Jose now. I'm not diving to San Jose. I'm stuck at work all day.
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Old 06-09-2009, 9:37 AM
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Yeah, thats messed up!
Atleast have the decency to say, "sorry for wasting your time, but I dont want it anymore" before not showing up
Def Im messaging him back that Im no longer interested.
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Old 06-11-2009, 1:26 PM
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Hmm that sucks!
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I agree that's screwed up. It wastes a lot of time and gas - both of which are expensive and in short supply.

Definitely you should ding the Seller with a negative feedback. Our Word is Our Bond; Flakes and Bozos are not welcomed to our community.

If you don't ding them, we won't know what kind of flake this person is/was. If you're concerned about retribution on your iTrader rating, check with the Mods.
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