IS the Gays With Guns forum to be just about GWGs? Or more open to various topics?

[GayGuns]

So up to this point it was my intention to try keep this sub forum more or less 'on topic' -- of, specifically LGBTs or Gays With Guns. However along the way there've been harmless comments that extend beyond the scope of Gays With Guns... And since there's not all that many Gays With Guns --YET.

One comment in particular I remember (and I don't remember which thread) or, come to think of it not really even sure if it was in this sub forum or another one of CalGuns, but that comment was something to the effect of how 2 women are having sex are hot and not necessarily seen as Gay (or Lesbian) per se (the sub text being that 2 men are not hot and that IS Gay / gross).

A scene of recent movie called 'Beach Rats' illustrates this societal double standard very well when a guy struggling with his preference has a conversation with a semi girlfriend... (anything more would be a spoiler --not that many here are going to run out and see it I realize

Anyways.. it's one of those things that has plagued the Gay tribe for eons and because this is a forum might be interesting to hear people's feedback. However --if you choose to respond please keep it respectful. This might lead to being a little more open as a sub forum than just the topic of GWG.

We shall see.... haha.

[LowThudd]

There is a double standard, and I have to admit I see things that way also. But more power to you to live your life as you want.

I think that female sexuallity being more mainstream accepted does not end with Fem/Fem sex. Female sex symbols are often iconized by both men and women, not as much with men as sex symbols.

I think this double standard is a far broader subject than simply same sex intercourse. It extends also to age difference sex. As we have seen, many men view a female teacher having sex with a male teenage student as bad decision, but no big deal. If the roles were reversed, things would be(and have been) much different.

[GayGuns]

Originally Posted by LowThudd

There is a double standard, and I have to admit I see things that way also. But more power to you to live your life as you want.

I think that female sexuallity being more mainstream accepted does not end with Fem/Fem sex. Female sex symbols are often iconized by both men and women, not as much with men as sex symbols.

I think this double standard is a far broader subject than simply same sex intercourse. It extends also to age difference sex. As we have seen, many men view a female teacher having sex with a male teenage student as bad decision, but no big deal. If the roles were reversed, things would be(and have been) much different.

See that? Great call! Thank you. That's something I have noticed myself and is a perfect example of societies double standards. Although recently I have heard more court cases involving female teachers convicted for sex with teenage boys, still it's a good bet that most probably go unreported.. maybe even advocated as a rite of passage... a coming of age experience. Wait wait.. I'm feeling this could be a hit movie... Mrs. Robinson? Hello?

[Calico1404]

My personal opinion is that men are not that attractive naked, ever, in any circumstance. Our body is not built with nice lines and dimples, they are built with hair everywhere and odd wrinkles. Plus you should see my tan lines!

[LowThudd]

^^ That is very true too. lol

[TKM]

I am convinced that there is not enough love to go around and anybody that feels the need to get in its way is a fine specimen of loose stool water.

Besides, the Clintons and the Obamas both have loinfruit, ick.

Nobody really keeps anything topical around here anyway.

[GayGuns]

Originally Posted by LowThudd

^^ That is very true too. lol

All a matter of perspective.. oh wait. Preference.

[RestrictedColt]

Two guys kissing is gross, I think I'd rather walk in on a BJ than guys making out. Girls together is at least tolerable, and depending on the girls can be very hot. I've heard the same or similar from many supposedly straight girls, but some are grossed out by girls and/or men being together. When I know a male couple well it's less gross, I guess knowing they love each other somehow changes things in my head. Only thing I really dislike about lesbians is that they take away from my potential pool of available women.

My GF feels about the same way as I do and is happy to have another girl to play with but luckily has no desire for a guy to join us.