I have two sons serving in the Army and a third serving in the Air Force. I know the Army is very family friendly. If you were single, you'd share a room with another soldier. If your married, they provide base housing for your family. It includes full medical coverage. Not sure about the AF as that son is single.
"If we lose freedom here, there is no place to escape to. This is the last stand on Earth." Ronald Reagan, October 27, 1964