Originally Posted by MrsRazz
You need to have a serious talk with her about doing that. Taking it out on the children is not acceptable. She's an adult, she should have some modicum of control. The children do not deserve to be the fall guys for the failure of the relationship.
she needs to grow up and put her big girl panties on right now. time to let her know what needs to happen for her to remain on the premises. its called "ground rules for relationship failure to allow continued co-existence in a combined household until such time as the sheets are literally separated". sit down, talk about it, write it down, and each of you sign it. if she breaks it, tell her her things will be on the street.