I agree. I think that it is best to have the lady pick out what she wants. It did me a world of good when I bought my first pistol to try out as many as i could prior to purchase, especially since this was my first introduction into guns. I wanted to get something that was recommended but that felt comfortable.
It's definitely worth it in the long run. Unless your lady is already talking wanting a specific gun definitely best to take her out and let her try different ones.
Onequickshift: I cant stand frail timid women. Yuck.
Loved this statement.