You might want to check out Yavapai Firearms Academy at Reed's Indoor Range in Santa Clara. It's run by Louis Awerbuck and he's good with the female students, at least the two that were in the stage 1 class that I took with him last year. He's got a stage 1 at the end of this month. He's running his stage 2 class this weekend. You might want to drive to Reed's and take a look in the window and observe the class for a bit. You can probably talk to Louis briefly during one of the breaks if you want.