I don't have a LadySmith, but last year I got an M & P 9mm with adjustable grip. I love it! It never jams, or has failure to feed problems. I have the medium grip which fits my had very well. The recoil is not as bad as my husband's .45 version of the same gun. S & W did a good job on the design.
Pink guns and grips are fine, but if a bad guy sees something black pointed at him and a woman's finger on the trigger, he won't like it or mistake if for a toy.
The Constitution will not defend itself!