Thank you very much for the link. I saw a LadySmith in Vacaville. It's about the size and weight of a Kahr K9, so most people should be able to get all 3 fingers on the grip. The hammer cannot be cocked for the first strike because of its shape, but also won't snag on anything in a purse or pocket. I was surprised that the slide stop and safety stick so far out.
I believe the S&W CS9 Chief's Special on the 2nd page of that link is more what I'm looking for. Smaller and 1 fewer round but mostly the same except for the rounded hump in the rear of the grip.