Most of my purchases have been through the Calguns private sales board. Look for someone local and ask to meet them at a shop. Obviously the more feedback they have here, the better you can feel about them not being someone out to just get your money. I've had great interactions with fellow Calgunners.
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"I am a sinner that does not expect forgiveness. But I am not a government official." Francis Wolcott (Deadwood)