Hmm. You guys with the wives/girlfriends having a change of heart about and warming up to firearms are lucky. My wife is even MORE against firearms in the wake of the mass shootings last year in Aurora, CO, the Sikh temple in Wisconsin, etc. and last month in Newtown, Conn.
She's fine with me and my friends and our guns, because she knows we've gone through extensive training. I think she's more worried about someone seemingly "normal" who has guns and going through a rough patch in life, and then going postal.