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Now for the truth one Father to another. You are the one that needs things. You and I can take anything the world sends our way but when it comes to Son this is a hurt we have a hard time taking. Build yourself a safety net for those times you are alone and thinking of the Boy. More than once I sat at three in the morning with one of our group holding hands and supporting each other. It helps in my humble opinion. Now have the wife reinforce the buttons on all your shirts for when you tell other men of your son and his adventures. They have a tendency to pop off. The last thing you need is a clean hankerchief for those times a quick tear finds its way into your eye when talking about the boy.
Thank you both for what you are doing.
Good job Mom and Dad.