I'll be darned Gio very interesting!
I used every case lube I could find, from Lee to Lyman? to Mobil 1. I went heavy on it with a q tip or dipping the neck because I got tired of the decapping rod sticking.
I never even thought about it killing the primer, figured the worst it might clump a little powder.
I have a bullet eraser at the shop, If I get out there tomorrow I'll pull them apart and see what they have to say. Fingers crossed that seating the primers deeper helped a bit.
If not, well, I'll just have to keep loading up ammo and shooting it off till I get it right!
thanks guys! I'll report back